Getting your little one to play on their own is a huge game changer. While your baby plays alone, think of all you could do with even twenty minutes of time to yourself! Not only is it good for you but it’s good for them. Their growth and development will sky rocket, while you get a much needed break. Learn these three easy steps for how to teach independent play to your little one.
4 easy ways to teach independent play
Taking the steps to teach independent play to your little one is a great way to get a little break. It is also a great way for kids to learn to entertain themselves, explore and learn their world. As you think about teaching this new skill, remember that it takes time and practice. Playing may need to be a learned skill, so have patience as you build up play skills and the time. Get started to teach independent play with these three easy steps!
| Teach & Time |
Learning independent play will take time. A 12 month old only has about 5-10 minutes of independent play and an 18 month old about 20-45 minutes. Be patient to show your little one the age-appropriate toys you have set up. Play together to show your little one how to play. You can build blocks, do a puzzle, or play with a busy board so he knows how on his own.
| Time |
Teach independent play a little bit at a time. It would be unfair to go from no independent play to expecting 20 minutes out of your one year old. Start by playing with him or her a few minutes, then sneak away when they are content. Stay away as long as you can and extend the time by a few minutes each day. Your little one will learn to play longer and longer as you practice this together. I find the morning to be the best time to practice and teach independent play. After your little one is fed, in a good mood and has had a nap, they will be more willing!
| Rotating Toys |
Toys can become boring to your toddler. Your little one has to want to play with his/her toys for independent play. Instead of buying new ones, rotate toys to makes them ”new” again! Once a week, change your toys around from where they are located and put some away where your little one can’t see or find. Then once a week or more, rotate your toys. Put living room toys in the basement, basement toys in the living room and choose some to put away. This keeps toys new and fun for your little one and you will be surprised how much they like discovering their “new” things!
| Toy Stations |
Your little one isn’t old enough to take the initiative to get his/her own toys out. If they are in a pile put away, he/she won’t be good at playing alone. Instead, set stations of toys up around the room. Make a place for blocks, puzzles, balls, books and whatever else you have. Doing this allows your little one to see the toys and move from activity to activity. This makes a huge difference! Check out these ideas for activities you can easily set up at home!
Independent play will take time but it will make a huge difference in your day! Use these four simple steps to encourage your child and teach independent play. Get to having some quiet time and teach your child independence sooner than you think! If you are looking for more activities to play and teach your little one, check out these toddler chores and why you should be teaching them now!
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