Before flying with our 5 month old baby for the first time, we were petrified. We had no idea how he would behave, if his ears would hurt, if he’d cry the whole flight, how to travel with a stroller, or if he needed a boarding pass. Ah! Plus, we were nervous about how everyone else on the flight would react to us flying with a baby. We USED to be those people who would scoff when we would see a baby begin down the isle (shame on us).
Our first flight was two hours, and it was a HUGE success. People asked us what we did to keep our baby so happy, calm and quiet. Since then, in Jackson’s first year of life, we flew with him 12 times: 6 round trips, and all were amazing flights! Here are my tips for flying with a baby that will ease your fears and make for a smooth flight for everyone.
Flying with baby is easy with these 10 tips
1.| Timing
Flying with a baby is easy breezy if baby sleeps the whole time! If possible, schedule your flight to take place over a nap or bedtime. Baby will be tried during this time and will likely fall asleep because of their typical schedule, lull of in-flight white noise and movement.
2.| Takeoff and Landing
Everyone knows that babies have more trouble adjusting to altitude and pressure changes, especially during a flight. Get baby above 10,000 feet after takeoff and below 10,000 feet when landing and you should be in the safe zone. How can you do this? Nursing, bottle feeding and pacifiers are a great way to get baby’s ears to adjust. I’ll also use this pacifier clip to tag an extra paci on his clothes. Sometimes, if I can safely hold Jackson’s feeding until a takeoff or landing, I will to help ease the flight pressure.
3.| Seating
One massive perk to flying with a baby is primary boarding! Different airlines will run this differently but if you get to choose your seat (either ahead of time or when boarding) opt for isle seats or if you can, the first row. The first row has extra room baby can be on the floor playing or you can stand and rock baby if the seat belt sign is off. The isle also allows easy in and out access to walk baby or stand to rock baby during flight. Remember, you aren’t allowed to have an exit row. Baby may not be ready for that responsibility!
4.| Toys
For your flight, pack your baby’s favorite toys. Then pack more! You want to make sure you have lots of options to keep baby entertained. Take advantage if you get a free carry on! If you want, download videos to an iPad or phone for your baby to watch. These are Jackson’s favorite toys that keep him entertained and occupied.
5.| Milk and Snacks
Whether you are flying with a baby or alone, TSA HAS to let you fly and go through security with your breast milk (if this applies to you). Depending on your flight length, pack milk plus extra to be safe or if there is an unexpected delay. Use a cooler to keep milk cold. Pack an insulated water bottle so that once you get through security, you can get warm water to heat bottles in flight. TSA allows a “reasonable amount” of milk to be carried with you. I’ll do a follow up post on traveling with breast milk and pumps to go into more detail.
This goes for snacks and regular milk or formula, too. Take as much as you want, as long as you can justify the amount in the event security asks (we’ve flown several times and no one has asked). For drinks, make sure they are in a container that you can take the lid off. I once packed a juice box, and it was taken because security can’t verify the liquid. Also, pack lots of snacks. We take puffs, Cheerios, cereal bars, fruit snacks, and take the in-flight snacks too! I love using this container because not only does it keep snacks safe but is also a way to work on fine motor skills and keep baby occupied trying to get the snacks out.
6.| Flight Length
If you can, schedule a shorter flight (sub two hours) or a flight with a layover to get an idea of how baby will do before flying over seas or doing a long haul.
7.| Baby Gear: car seat, stroller & base
For our flights, we flew with Spirit and Southwest. Both were super helpful at easily giving us luggage tags at the gate and allowing us to check our stroller, car seat and base free of charge. It’s an airport rule that you can go through security with your stroller items. Our experience is that our airlines easily and happily checked our stuff before getting on the flight. Google or call your airline to see how their protocol.
8.| Baby Boarding Pass
Some airline require a boarding pass for baby to fly. Some require you have their birth certificate to verify they are under 2, so they can fly on your lap for free. Usually, this means waiting in the full service line at bag check (even if you aren’t checking any bags). Call ahead to see what your airline specifics are. I’d recommend having your birth certificate either way, just in case!
9.| Be Early
We were one of those couples who would take our chances getting to the airport only an hour before our flight took off. When we started traveling with Jackson, that definitely changed! Traveling with a baby or child adds time! Time you can’t account for. You might have a poo blowout, snack purchases, delayed time at security, who knows! Add an extra hour to give you plenty of time to avoid unforeseen time sucks and still being able to make your flight.
10.| Breathe
You gave birth! You got this mama. What’s the absolute worst thing that could happen? You will get where you are going, baby will forget if he has a terrible experience and you’ll arrive at your destination with baby’s first flight in the books.
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KENDRA says
Great tips! Very timely. I’ll send this to my daughter as she is flying with her 16 mo old toddler for the first time tomorrow morning and could use all the tips she can get. 🙂
Miranda Yogan says
I’m wishing here luck! I hope these tips help! Flying with a baby can be really intimidating. I think it makes me more nervous than my son! Make sure she has lots of toys and snacks!
Tracy says
Great Tips! We travel with our kiddo all the time and every single thing you mentioned is super helpful!
Miranda Yogan says
Thanks! I’m glad this post is helpful! Traveling with kids can be scary but definitely worth it! Start ‘em young!
Ellie Criscitello says
This is such an informative post! I have my first little one on the way, and have definitely been nervous about the idea of traveling with her. Thank you for the tips!
Miranda Yogan says
I understand the nervousness. That’s how I felt when first traveling with my son. He was a few months old for his first flight and it went really well! You will do great traveling with your little one! And CONGRATS!!!
alison says
We’re a long way out of the baby stage with our kiddos, but it looks like you’ve got it covered — great tips to share with other mamas out there who may need a little extra help. Thanks for sharing!
Miranda Yogan says
I bet it is fun to travel with your older kids! Each age and stage is fun!
Allison says
These are great tips. Flying for the first time with a baby IS scary! Though I’ve found it’s actually easier than flying with toddlers. My husband and I travel frequently with our three kids. We’re out of the baby stage now (thank goodness!) and I can honestly say that aside from the toddler stage, they get easier to travel with as they get older. My oldest is a breeze and my preschooler is getting there. I’m hoping my toddler will get easier in a year or two… fingers crossed. lol!
Miranda Yogan says
Yes! The older Jackson gets, the more he wants to be moving and grooving, which is tough with flying. Gotta have an isle seat to walk around! You’re amazing to travel with your 3 kids! It’s so great for kids to experience travel; they will thank you one day! Your toddler will get there! To me, flying is WAY easier than driving anywhere.
Bo lupe says
Great tips here especially getting to the airport early. We were guilty of arriving at the airport just an hour to boarding before our children however, we have now seen the benefits of arriving really early. This includes a chance to stay at the airport lounges and feel fully relaxed before our flight.
Miranda Yogan says
We were like that before we had Jackson, but there are so many things that can delay boarding when you have a baby! One time he pooped out the sides of his diaper! Sometimes the full service lines are SO long! Plus, then you can get a coffee and relax, like you said.
Michele Nash says
A fabulous post! With my first 2 kids we didn’t even dare trying to board a plane before they were 2. Now we have an almost 6 month old who will likely be flying by summer (yikes)! I’ve already bookmarked this for a refresher when the time comes. And I love that you support the Patagonia brand (saw in your pics). We are HUGE fans.
Miranda Yogan says
Thanks so much, friend! You will do great! I think 6 months is the perfect age to start flying with a baby. I hope these tips help you have the smoothest flight! And we LOVE Patagonia. I steal my husband’s stuff and wear it all the time haha It’s amazing gear.